Hey, it’s Friday!
And it’s blowing a gale and raining here, and our chalet is in bits and pieces, and Catrin is ignoring the doctor and taking her tonsillitis off to pull bits of the chalet ceiling down with her sister. I don’t think we’re going to get a Growth Club recording done today (but we’ll do extra next week!).
But if it’s Friday, it’s Seren yr Wythnos time…
And there was, of course, one person I spoke to about the idea for SSiW before Iestyn…
Seren yr Wythnos #2
Catrin Lliar Jones
I can still remember floating the idea to Catrin, a little nervously, as we sat on a small wickerwork sofa in the bedsit we were living in (made out of a converted pigsty on her sister’s smallholding). I can literally still see the colours of the sofa…
I was a little nervous for two reasons. First, I’d been going on about trying to build a Spanish course - I’d even got as far as talking to an entrepreneurial friend of mine, and he’d floated the idea to some friends of his who invested in early stage companies, and they’d all said ‘No way, it’s far too competitive a market’. Catrin wasn’t very fond of the idea either - partly because of the second reason, which was that we were stony broke and sinking into debt, technically homeless, and I’d been gradually cutting my own salary and hours as CEO of the lobbying organisation Cymuned.
Catrin was increasingly keen for me to get a proper job. And I’d even put a handful of applications in - so I wasn’t sure how she’d react to me getting distracted by something else…
She looked at me, smiled, and said ‘This is the best idea you’ve had. This is the right thing for you to be doing.’
That spark of fire and enthusiasm was the beginning of it all. If she’d said ‘Will you please just keep looking for work?’ I wouldn’t have been able to refuse - we had a child on the way, after all. Her belief in me, at a time when it would have been hard for anyone else to find many good reasons to believe in me, was what made it all happen.
And she’s never wavered - whatever happened, as we fought our way slowly out of the worst of the debt, as we gave up sleep for the first five years or so of the kids, as we faced the ups and downs of trying to build something that really worked, as she tried to find a path through life for herself - she’s been there, throwing herself into recordings (however cold the studio!), organising parties and Eisteddfod stands, double-checking that what I’m suggesting sounds natural (about a million times and counting), welcoming dozens and dozens of lovely learners to our home with friendliness, endless enthusiasm and usually lots of food…
We met on the Welsh language dating site Pishyn.com (which I’d love to see revived one of these days!). Our first date was at the Anglesey pub in Caernarfon. Apparently, when she got back from the date she phoned her sister and said she’d met the man she was going to marry.
That date was, without question, the luckiest day of my life…
#***#
How about you?
What have you appreciated most about Catrin over the years?
What difference has she made to you?
Let’s give her a chance to see how much she really matters…
Seren yr Wythnos #1
Iestyn ap Dafydd
Seren yr Wythnos #2
Catrin Lliar Jones
Seren yr Wythnos #3
Cat Dafydd
Seren yr Wythnos #4
Dee McCarney
Seren yr Wythnos #5
Spenny
Seren yr Wythnos #6
Jeff Lewis
Seren yr Wythnos #7
Ifan Baines