I finally finished challenge one!! I only pressed pause once!! I feel so proud of myself! On to challenge 2!!
Llongyfarchiadau! Congratulations! And welcome to the start of a long and happy adventureâŚ
Llongyfarchiadau mawr! (big congrats)! Iâm happy for you. Yes, now on to Challenge 2! See you at the end of it.
Hwyl!
Tatjana
Awesome - well done, Ann Marie!
Um⌠when you say âfinallyâ⌠how many times did you go through it?
Many⌠lol! I am a stickler I have to get it perfectly. I also practice really late at night after a long day and my brain is pretty done by than. Lol!
Iâm a bit like that too, but the SSiW method really comes into itâs own when you forget about perfection; just pressing on madly, making lots of mistakes and getting out of your comfort zone. Iti s worth doing this
This is like driving with brakes on, honestly - youâre not meant to get all the phrases right, youâre meant to let the spaced repetition thatâs built into it build your memories over time - you might find that if, instead of thinking in terms of going 11111111111 222222222222 33333333333 etc, you try going 123456789101234567891012345678910 etc, your progress will become much faster (and youâll almost certainly find out that you donât really need to revisit the earlier lessons once youâve given the spaced repetition enough room to work)âŚ
Thanks for the tip. I found the only way I can really remember things is if I write it down on note cards it actually helps. I know it is easier to do just mix it up, but I am the type of person who has to have order when learning stuff lol! If it is all jumbled up I get confused. But I guess itâs always good fo try new things:)
@annmariegarone84 I understand where you are coming from because Iâm a perfectionist, too. I had a hard time letting myself make mistakes and believing that I would learn if I didnât repeat the lessons. But speaking from experience, you really can trust the spaced repetition. I think you will surprise yourself if you try just moving forward as Aran suggests. And if you really feel like you need to go back at some point, you always canâŚthe lessons will be there waiting for you
I also understand that itâs harder at the end of a long dayâŚyou donât necessarily have to do a whole lesson at one time, either!
You were right! I just finished listening to challenge two and they do repeat everything enough where you donât need to listen to it constantly. It is different than challenge one thatâs for sure.
The thing is, with language that can only get you so far - and then at some point youâll be in a real conversation, and those things always get messyâŚ
So what weâre trying to do is to prepare you as well as possible for that experienceâŚ
A lot of the things that feel helpful arenât necessarily effective - I recommend reading Dr Robert Bjork on âdesirable difficultiesâ on that front - although of course you need to feel happy enough to carry on doing the work.
Good luck, and keep us posted on how it goes!
I have felt the same way, but this thread has helped me realise that all I am doing is learning the lesson, not the language and itâs patterns etc.
This weekend I will move on, mistakes and all.
Challenge 2 here I come!
Thanks for the nudge.
Great decisionâŚ
Congratulations!
I understand your need to feel youâve totally perfected the lesson content before moving on to the next one, but I agree with what everyone else is saying: you truly will make faster progress if you accept whatever mistakes youâre making and push on.
In my opinion, if youâre getting more than half of each sentence correct, even if you got hardly any of the longer sentences 100% correct, youâre doing well enough to start the next lesson. If youâre getting around 80% of each sentence correct, youâre definitely doing well enough. Thereâs enough repetition in the later lessons to give you many, many more chances at getting right whatever it was you got wrong the first time.
I do use the pause button - but I use it to give myself time to collect my thoughts and speak before Catâs voice kicks in. And I do often repeat lessons, but never with the goal of perfection - only to get myself to a certain level of relative comfort. If I tackle the next lesson, or the one after that, but Iâve gone too fast and I reach the point where Iâm saying almost nothing, then I know itâs time to go back and repeat an earlier lesson. If I can manage to speak most of the time, and most of what I say is correct, then thatâs good enough for the moment. Press on.
A few things which helped me shed my perfectionist tendencies:
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Accept Iestynâs excellent advice: âIn later lessons, youâll find yourself replacing your original mistakes with newer and more interesting mistakesâ. You can still be making great progress even if you rarely get anything but the very shortest sentences 100% right. You wonât really be aware of it, but the things you got wrong in the early lessons are things you will be getting right in the later ones - youâre now just getting slightly more complicated things wrong! And eventually youâll get those right too, while getting yet more complicated things wrong - all in the same sentence.
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Try a thought experiment. Think of mistakes as a kind of quota. I got this idea from whichever artist it was who said âWe all have 10,000 bad drawings inside us. The sooner we get them out, the better.â Imagine youâve got 10,000 mistakes inside of you, and you MUST get every single one of them out before you can call yourself proficient in Welsh. Whenever you make a mistake, try thinking âAnother one down; only 9,892 mistakes to goâ. That way, mistakes become stepping stones on the path to proficiency, rather than hurdles blocking your way.
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Teach someone what youâve learned. Youâll discover youâve actually understood and remembered far more than you thought you had, and that will give you the confidence to press on. The person youâre teaching doesnât need to be someone who understands. If you donât have a partner or child or friend who is patient enough to listen, then do you have a toddler in the house? Get a pile of Lego, sit down with them, and say your Welsh sentences while youâre playing. Theyâll probably want to imitate you. Practise the trickier sounds with them, such as [ll] and [r] and [ch]. Do you have a dog? While youâre walking or stroking the dog, explain in your own words how the Welsh sentences youâve learned are constructed: âWhen we want to talk about ourselves in the present, we start with Dw iân⌠Itâs actually made up of a few smaller words, but we pronounce it almost like itâs a word of one syllable. Dw iân. Now, if we want to make the sentence negative, we pull the 'n off the end, stick in a ddim, which means ânoâ or ânotâ, and glue it all back together, with the 'n now getting its full weight as a syllable: yn. So now we have Dw i ddim ynâŚâ The dog, of course, doesnât understand a word, but thatâs fine - youâre not really explaining it to the dog, youâre explaining it to yourself. No toddler or dog? Then just pretend you have an audience. Youâre a teacher of Welsh, explaining to a class of novices whatever it is youâve just learned. Give them some sample sentences. Try and make up some sample sentences that werenât in the lesson you heard. Pretend one or two of your class havenât understood the concept. Is there a different way you can explain it to them? I do this imaginary role-playing almost daily. It helps clarify what Iâve heard in the audio lessons, it helps me make sense of Welsh grammar (itâs interesting how my âlessonsâ to my imaginary class get refined over time as I learn more!), and above all, it helps me remember Welsh words and phrases, so that I donât need to repeat the lessons as much.
Whatever you do to help you make faster progress, I wish you every success.
I have always found that the best way to learn anything is to teach someone else! Part way through trying to explain all oneâs own confusion is blown away! âOh, I see!â I would cry to my confused mother, and go away, leaving her wondering what Iâd been talking about!